The
family is a model of society and a preparation ground for the future members of
society. It is also the first form of government.
When the family prospers,
society prospers. However, when the family suffers, society also suffers1,2.
The
effects of family breakdown on domestic abuse3, youth violence4,
youth addiction5, poverty6,7,8,9 and other behavioral
problems10,11 are well documented.
"...The decline in the family leads to a decline in our democracy.
Indeed, the family is where children should learn self-government, basic moral
values and the beliefs that determine the future of democratic institutions.
Thus, it stands to reason that without stable families, we can have no hope
of producing self-reliant, responsible citizens.
...The increasing
loss of the family structure leads to destabilization in society of
"mediating structures" - neighborhoods, families, churches, schools
and voluntary associations. When they function as they should, mediating
structures limit the growth of the government. But when these structures break
down, society - that is, people - look to mega-structures, such as the state, as
a source of values. In America, the state-financed public schools and day care
centers have increasingly assumed the role of providing "values" for
children. As history teaches, the authoritarian state gladly and aggressively
assumes this role and becomes a substitute family."12
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REFERENCES:
[1]
"No
Family, No Stability, No Community, No Nation", by
Martin Wickens, Thursday, 12 April 2007.
[2]
"The
£20 billion annual cost of family breakdown", by
Steve
Doughty,
Daily Mail (UK), December 8th 2006.
[3]
"Family
Violence in America", Report by Stephen Baskerville, PhD, May
2006
[4]
"Family
Change Induces Kids' Violence", Fred C. Pampei
and John B. Williamson, University of Colorado and Boston College.
[5]
"Broken homes found
to break children",
Globe & Mail, Jan. 24, 2003.
[6]
"Breakdown
of family blamed for child poverty",
By William Walker, Toronto Star Ottawa Bureau Chief.
[7]
"Let
Them Eat Their Words … Marriage Reduces Poverty", by
Jennifer Garrett, March 22, 2002.
[8]
"Families in Poverty in the 1990s: Trends, Causes, Consequences, and
Lessons Learned", Karen Seccombe, Journal of Marriage and the Family
62[2000].
[9]
"Are
the poor getting poorer?", by Walter
Williams, October 2007.
[10]
Statistics
Canada, January 2001.
[11]
In
their 1995 book, "Growing Up With a Single Parent",
Sarah McLanahan and Gary Sandefur point out that children raised
by a single parent are two to three times as likely to get
into trouble with the law, struggle at school, get involved with
drugs and alcohol or get pregnant out of wedlock.
[12]
"Without the Family,
There Is No Freedom", By John W.
Whitehead, The Rutherford Institute,
December 28, 2006.